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Elisabeth Kramer, Wedding Coordinator and Consultant
Two brides look at each other on their wedding day

Thought about this September wedding this month. Not pictured: The excellent mini bottles of Fireball they gave all of their guests. Photo: Caroline Fontenot. Venue: Blockhouse

 

Cool wedding planning resources I made.

This month, I did my first wedding since having a baby, which brought to mind my article about how I built my parental leave.

If you run a small business in the wedding industry and are thinking of having a kid, give it a gander. I wrote it because I couldn’t find any other examples of how to do this without working a wedding immediately postpartum.

Speaking of my first wedding, here’s what it looked like.

I’m not on Instagram myself but can still appreciate a good Reel. Shoutout to the talented Alexis Ramblings of SlowCult for her floral work.

“Those who mind don’t matter; those who matter don’t mind!”

A gem I found re-reading a series I wrote in 2018 of three-question Q&As with women planning weddings.

 EVEN MORE FREE WEDDING PLANNING RESOURCES 
Three candles featuring daises of different colors: pink, blue, and white.

These are candles! Use promo code “"CHANDLE15” at the Etsy shop to get 15 percent off for reading this newsletter. (Note: I haven’t used these myself but thought they’d be pretty darn cool as either wedding gifts or decor.) Photo: Chandle Co.

 

Cool wedding planning resources other people made

The weddings reporter at The New York Times is looking for people getting hitched on Halloween 2024.

Is that you? Is it someone you know? Email her: Sadiba Hasan at sadiba.hasan@nytimes.com.

Can it be?! An independent study about the wedding industry?

I’ve ranted before (in fact, I do it in the very next section) about how few wedding-related studies there are that aren’t backed by The Knot/WeddingWire, Zola, etc. so imagine my delate upon learning about this study that’s going on at the University of Denver.

The Loveallways study is a five-year project to understand how relationships grow, change, and shift in the newlywed years for LGBTQ+ couples.

If you’re interested in not only reading about but actually participating in the study, here’s the interest form.

7,000 couples took a survey from Zola about their weddings.

It’s hardly impartial and good luck sifting out the marketing language but a few things caught my eye including:

  • 90 percent of surveyed 2024 couples said they’re contributing financially to their weddings (and 30 percent said they’re paying for the whole thing)

  • 38 percent of surveyed LGBTQ+ couples said they’re paying in full for their weddings (vs. 27 percent of surveyed heterosexual couples)

  • 297 of surveyed couples booked their wedding venue before “officially, as society defines it, getting engaged” (granted, this is less than 5 percent of the total surveyed group but still, interesting)

A boutonnière without the pins or magnets?

Maybe you’ve seen it already but it was new to me (and felt pretty smart if you’ve got a suit pocket). Thanks for the link, Mom!

This month, I did my 100th consulting call and was reminded of the beauty of “just” serving cake and punch.

Yes, this is a thing people do and it’s damn delicious.

A heart-shaped lox board

September is the anniversary of the one and only brunch wedding I’ve ever done. I think of it (and this heart-shaped lox board) often and fondly. Photo: Me. Food and Venue: Abernethy Center

 

Wedding vendors, this is for you

Come join me on October 30 for an in-person meet-up for local wedding vendors. (Seattle, we’ve got a couple meet-ups for you, too.)

 

Weddings take a lot of work! For a little extra help, consider:

  • asking me a question for free

  • using this gallery of free resources

  • reading these articles to help you plan

  • reading my book

  • renting my brain for an hour

  • hiring me to coordinate

 

Elisabeth Kramer Enterprises LLC, P.O. Box 1533, Portland, OR 97207, USA

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