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Elisabeth Kramer, Wedding Coordinator and Consultant
A couple stands on a mountaintop for their wedding.

March always makes me think of March 2020 and all of the weddings that the pandemic disrupted. These two were some of my clients that year.

Fun fact: They’re having a wedding celebration this summer to celebrate five years, which just goes to show that it’s never too late to celebrate love.

Photo: Friend of couple

 

Stats stats stats

Every year, I keep an eye out for The Knot’s Real Weddings Study.

It’s the biggest survey I’m aware of in my industry, which is sad to say since it’s also backed by one of the biggest players in my industry.

Still, I’ll take what I can get.

I use to write very long, very sassy blog posts about the findings (2020, 2021, 2022). This year, I thought it would be more useful to pull out a few key facts instead:

  • You can read The Knot’s take on their study here with the specific cost of a U.S. wedding broken out here. Notably, the latter link includes the average cost per state as well as the average cost for a list of major U.S. cities.

  • One of the most useful pieces of information I saw was cost per guest. That was $284 in 2024, which tracks. The number I most often give people is $100 per head for food so that extra $184 would be everything else a client provides (e.g. drinks, rentals, favors, a venue, etc.).

  • “Couples spent an average of six hours a week reviewing, organizing, and finalizing details.” That’s in-line with the one other study I’ve found on hours per week, and a reminder that planning a wedding is a part-time job.

  • The average guest count between Gen Z (131) and Millennials (113) tracks with my theory that since Covid, people want to party.

  • Lastly, I’d like to quickly acknowledge how hilarious the phrase “old money aesthetic” is. It’s right up there with “micro-opulence.”

A map of the U.S. with states color-coded by average wedding cost.

Go here for a list of average cost in major U.S. cities.

Design: Tiana Crispino (The Knot)

 

Cool wedding planning resources I made

I had my first wedding of 2025 this month.

And it was a good reminder that buffer helps.

If you’re getting married this summer, it’s probably time to schedule your final tour.

Here’s what this meeting is and what you need to ask about.

The most read story on my site this month?

The template for a ceremony script.

Did you know you can make your own rings?

My husband and I did this and it was so lovely, I wrote about it! (Fun fact: Since we worked with Allison Ullmer at Ringed, she’s switched to 100 percent Fairmined gold.)

Psst — Per my code of conduct, I don’t take kickbacks or other things of value for my referrals.

 EVEN MORE FREE WEDDING PLANNING RESOURCES 
Two Perler bead creations. One says Jane and the other says Joe.

Maybe it’s the ‘90s kid in me but I loved these Perler beads (had to look that up!) that I spotted at a recent event. For the right client, this would be a fun way to do place cards.

Photo: Me

 

Cool wedding planning resources other people made

If you like The Experiential Wedding, consider the newsletter.

It’s about how to design a wedding that centers meaningful emotional experiences.

I’m not really sure what’s going on with the Portland Bridal Show.

But it may now be June 1? The last media coverage I can find about it was in late January when the show unexpectedly cancelled a few days before the event.

There’s an interesting new business in New York.

It’s called Cheersy and it’s pretty much a marketplace to find a day-of wedding coordinator. If you use it, this list of interview questions may be useful.

Here’s the latest issue of Mandala: The Indian Wedding Magazine.

If you like publications that aren’t your “typical” mainstream wedding media, check out the list at the end of this page.

Last call: Vow writing workshops!

There are two dates left for this very fun and also productive date night hosted by Emily Sterling of Rooted & Wild.

Northwest folks, some upcoming wedding events:

  • SMOOCH — Saturday 4/5/25 in Oregon City

  • Sustainable Wedding Show — Sunday 4/6/25 in Issaquah, Washington

  • Westside Weddings — Saturday 4/26/25 in Hillsboro

  • Leach Botanical Garden’s Spring Wedding Open House — 5 to 7 p.m. Saturday 5/3 in Portland

  • NEW: On Saturday 5/3 and Sunday 5/4, The Budget Savvy Bride is hosting the inaugural Savvy Weddings Summit, an online event for engaged people who are just starting to plan.

Note: I won’t be at these, which I only mention so you don’t look for me.

A wedding arbor with two giant golden mushrooms

Please enjoy these giant golden mushrooms. Available at the venue!

Photo: Me; Venue: The Victorian Belle

 

Wedding vendors, this is for you

Wedding vendor meet-ups are happening! I’m hosting one in Portland in April and there are two coming up in Seattle. Think of this as a free, low-effort way to meet coworkers you like.

 

Weddings take a lot of work! For a little extra help, consider:

  • asking me a question for free

  • using this gallery of free resources

  • reading these articles

  • reading my book

  • renting my brain for an hour

  • hiring me to coordinate

 

Elisabeth Kramer Enterprises LLC, P.O. Box 1533, Portland, OR 97207, USA

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